Crying, and why we do that

This is what i've realised: Different people look at different things in different ways. Ok. Say for people like us, we dont think too much when we cry in front of others, esp, if the other party is a girl. More often than not, we're likely to gain a little bit of sympathy from them. i mean, tears are the universal sign of sadness. We hope to gain sympathy and comfort from it, to the extent that it almost becomes an obsession. i've read that humans will cry when there is no other possible way out. Its so different. I mean, generally when guys see someone crying they think," OMG crybaby" , but when girls see the same thing they say," OMG poor thing.."IDK. hai.

ermm....

OMG. Rmb the toilets in China? OMG OMG OMG. I think they beat the record seriously. they were out of this world. Like, we went to the CCTV studios where shows with olden time scenes where filmed, the toilet was a drainage system, and had stable doors.. you know those which you can peep over... someone did... OMG..

saying goodbye? idk.....

SIgh. Iam back. so sian. school's starting way too soon. I miss the weather there. seriously i mean here we go into the shopping centre to cool down. There we go into the shopping centre to warm up. The photo was taken while i was in a boat on the erm, 3rd day? it was the Yiwu cruise. went to woozy( sorry wuxi) on the 5th day.. the pearl factory, which was good but all the guys were pretty bored..cant blame them:)I managed to take a few funny photos of the direct translation from chinese to english, cant post them now.. its in the camera:( but one was written : ( in chinese) xiao xin de hua ( in english) be careful of landslide. i mean, de=land, hua=slide. :)

I realise that its a hundred times harder to say goodbye to someone when u know its almost impossible that you'll see them again..We know the usual sayings," We'll keep in touch!" and the usual exchange of phone numbers or email addresses only provides the psychological comfort of not losing each other entirely. But as time goes by we soon realise that it becomes harder and harder to comply with what one has said to the other, and soon the words are forgetten. I think the hardest of all is when friends are made on a short term notice, eg. holiday, because we dont see each other on a day to day basis. I think it really is because once the duration of the tour is over, we end up saying goodbye and shedding hot tears over the seperation of friendship.

As the saying goes, it takes two hands to clap. therefore, it takes 2 to keep a friendship. one person can we enthusiastic but if the other person doesnt quite keep up, the friendship can be broken as easily a cotton thread. Iam not saying that all friendships dont turn out well. Some do, and i realise its because apart from the fact that we dont meet each other all the time. Aiya. i hope this one turnes out though. I really do...

Oh man. Iam repeating myself. aiya iam talking crap la. better end off before i say more crap. sigh........

GReetings from Shanghai!:)

Yo.:) guess where iam now. Iam in shanghai using the hotel com. OMG OMG OMG. SO awfully cold. 0 degrees. Oh and from what my tour guide said, the milk here is safe? IDk. TOok the maglev train. Went to Su zhou. a lot of temple s and a river. then today,went to xi tang water town. took a boat to the village. its super old i tell u. unlike the modern city... hai. every single dinner and lunch is the same... a dinner with a lazy susan. just food... oh and i tried the chou dou fu. the specialty i guess. not chou at all. I like the smell in fact. haiya. damn cold. I have to stir the milo to dissolve with a toothbrush. Toilet can see through. :0I think iam goin to bed now. 8.30pm. sigh. more again when iam back. bye:)

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Yay:) leaving for the airport in 2 hours time:)

:) just for fun...

Yo:) haha iam back:) Just for fun:)

Screenshots of my character in EO.

Photo on left: Iam the one in the red christmas hat near the statue:)

photo on the right: there's only one character..

Ooh iam leaving for Shanghai on the 14th Midnight( or is that 15?) haha..