This is such a superficial, trivial issue. I shouldn't be technically bringing it up, but well, it struck me, and so I shall.
I was looking through her photos and I realised one thing- she's as well-liked as he is. Wouldn't it be a more appropriate match for 2 well liked people to be together? ( Yes, I know it's terribly stupid because she's not his type, never was and never will be. In my opinion, I actually think she's unfit for any guy, but let's not go there yet. )
Also, as I once mentioned in a previous blog post, facebook 'likes' doesn't necessarily mean someone actually likes whatever/ whoever's in the photo, but sometimes, it's a little infuriating to see someone who's fake, plastic and pathetic get the friends. I guess that's the way the world works, and sad to say, some people haven't yet realised yet. 60+ likes on facebook on a photo and 500+ 'friends' when they've got no real value in any single friend? That's sad.
I know he's often told me that I'm a thousand times better than she is, but that doesn't stop the occasional unhappy thoughts. I look at her, and yes, because he's tried so valiantly, I now know for a fact that I'm better than her, in every single way. I guess I should learn to forgive her for the way she treated him, because all she left me was a guy who's so much more mature, and so much more understanding than he ever was to her in the past. I should be studying, I know, but such thoughts sometimes creep one when one least expects it. Whatever it is, I know I did the right thing, because somehow, I've managed to tell myself truthfully that she doesn't mean a thing in his life now.
So what if she's got 60 likes on her photo? That doesn't mean anything. It only breeds narcissism. And with what little knowledge I have of her, I'm not out to defame her, nor am I to judge her for her ill actions of the past. If it wasn't for his constant valiant attempts to tell me I'm way better, I probably wouldn't be in the secure state I am in today. I'm happy.
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